Self Sabotiage explained by James Wedmore

Each week I look through many  inspiring emails from people who are achieving big goals and I found this one.

James Wedmore is the Video Guru and I have done his Video Traffic Academy Series to learn how to use youtube and to get your message across using video.

Success Leaves Secrets and I have found with my Journey of Personal Development and speaking to many different successful people, they offer experiences and this exact is from an email from James Wedmore and he explains what Self Sabotage meant for him.

Email Extract from James Wedmore

When business is going great, it’s easy to take credit for everything, right?!

But what about when it’s not working?

...when you’re not making enough sales, or not closing enough clients?

Whose fault is it then?

It’s easy to blame someone or something else (i.e. the economy, the marketplace). It takes an immense amount of COURAGE to take responsibility for your current situation.

In that moment, you get your power back.  You are empowered to choose and create a new reality...a reality in which you’re in control..

And with seven years of experience, I know The Journey of Entrepreneurship is an Internal one. 

We get in our own way. We self-sabotage. And what’s worse, we’re really clever at covering our tracks so we don’t even know how we got in our own way!!

I'm guilty of self-sabotage. How?

I WAS AFRAID.  

In the past, I was afraid of what others thought of me, afraid of being rejected. And that fear prevented me from putting myself out there. It prevented me from publishing my YouTube videos, from emailing my list, and even selling my programs.  

How did I overcome it?

I stopped being selfish.

I discovered that my fear was ego-based.  I was concerned with looking good, receiving praise, getting acknowledged.  My simple mantra dissolved that. 

 “It’s not about me, it’s about them.  How can I serve them?” (*them = my subscribers and customers)

If you have something that can make the World a better place, it is your duty to get your business in front of as many people as you possibly can.

As Marie Forleo says, 

"It's not your job for them to find you,

it's your job to find them."

So, if you’re struggling to get your products and services out to more people... 

If you feel like you are getting in your own way, this video can help...

Click here to learn how to remove self sabotage from your daily life. 

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Is a Traditional Business better than a Non Traditional Business

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What is the difference between the traditional business and the online business?

• Online Businesses,
• working from jobs,
•  business opportunities,
•  work online, 
• Internet marketing, 
• Network marketing all get thrown into Work from Home Businesses or Jobs.

What about

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• Self Employed Business,
• Couriers
• Taxi Drivers
• Farmers
• Carpenters,
• Plumbers
• Electricians

These guys aren't placed in the "work from Home field" yet all of them actually  process there work from home but deliver there service elsewhere

When we look at any Online Business they too can operate from anywhere, at any time as long as there is an Internet connection.

Both groups actually work online to advertise, research, find new clients, sell there products and invest in new ideas.  So what is actually the big difference?

Traditional Businesses

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• have more competition
• More regulations
• Great expense to get started
• You have to bring your skills and training
• You need varying forms a accreditation
• You have a structure hour of work
• You can build them up and expand and sell later down the track.

Non Traditional Businesses

• Still have a great competitions, because you are competing against the might goggle
• You have advertising disclaimers for some platforms
• You can have great expense if you get caught in the newbie trap of buying $37 programs
• You have a new set of skills to learn, keyword bidding, website content, SEO, SEM
• You have to find credibility to put with your websites
• Your hours are open, but how do you sell to some one who is sleeping
• Most Online businesses never get sold as a going concern

OK, you have now read the flaws in both arguments.  Both business models have similar costs.  How do I know I own both types.  Here are the questions only you can answer.

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1. Can the business model I choose deliver me the results I am looking to achieve
2. With my list of goals for myself, my business, my charities, my family can they be created from the business I choose.
3. Is the product or service I want to provide, going to add value to me, my business, my community.
4. Can this business expand and be a saleable item at the end of it's time
5. Can this business still grow without me being in it?

There is a very valid reason as to why 90% of businesses fail before five reason.

These people bought a JOB- to get away from a JOB

Know your goals, add up the income you are choosing to have and find a business which can deliver.

The most successful people in the world at one time have learnt these lessons.

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Man who follows the puck will be forever chasing.

Personal Development, though not everyone choice of subject offers some amazingly powerful insights into a persons reality.

What we do, How we do it or what we think about,  has direct correlation to what we receive.  Our program we promote has the ability to change peoples lives forever and even though the critics have most of the answers (they think,) in the end it is the individual who stands to loose or win the most depending on their situation and the decisions they make or don't make.

There has been many times over the past five years people ask me why I promote this business and what it means to be part of an organisation which is so productive in it's focus, it puts traditional thinking to shame.

Is this business or product for everyone, probably not.  That question is similar to  me asking you about your car.  Is Ford better then Holden or is Toyota the best of both.  Everyone will have a valid reason for their view.  There is no wrong or right answer, there is a view based on what that person's circumstances and stage in life is now, that is the answer.

I can remember when I started this program, there were many ideas that didn't sit with me then and some now I am not fussed about.  There is a lot that I use in my everyday life.  There are elements that have changed my mind about because the stage of life I was at, now I am able to understand fully what the meaning meant for me.

Today there are still elements which challenge me to become more educated and more active in my pursuit for my goals.

I now enjoy speaking with friends who haven't changed their ideas and we speak about the same issues of everyday life.  It is as if everyone is stuck in time or maybe there circumstances don't allow them to try or become something or maybe they aren't hurting as much as they are sounding.  For if they were they would want to change.  For me it is not a matter of being right, it is matter of acceptance of there life story.

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Turning On The Positive, Turning Off The Negative

We all have a positive and negative subconscious and its up to us how we choose to use both of them.

They are both very obedient and will do whatever is asked of them.

If you choose to use the negative subconscious and this can be in the things you say or think.
I'm having a bad day
I hate this job
My car is a wreck
I'm not happy with my partner
I don't have enough money

All these are negative statements that your subconscious will go to work on because it is so obedient and will deliver more of these things to you.

If you change these statements slightly to make them positive:

I'm having a good day
I like parts of my job
My car gets me from A to B
I intend to be happy with my partner
I have enough money and I'd like more

You will start to get more of them. It's only a case of making a small change to what you say and what you think, you have to remember that what you say and what you think is what you attract.

Being mindful of what you say and what you think is key, because these are the things you will attract more of and if you want to attract more money you have to talk and think that more money is coming your way because that is what you will attract. If you say and think 'I haven't got enough money that is what you will attract.

If you find yourself thinking 'I hate my job', noticing it is the first stage and that's good that you have noticed that you have thought a negative thought. If you really do hate your job, find something even if its really small to like about your job. The more things you can find to like about your job, the more things for you to like will appear until eventually you can say 'I like my job'.

Sometimes if you are having a really bad day you might want to try lying to yourself and pretending your life is very different, I do this a lot. I go into a daydream and imagine I have everything I want, all the money I could possibly need, luxury goods, fancy car, swimming pool, all the usual things that people dream about. And its great to do that because it moves your subconscious to acting into bringing those things to you, and it makes you feel great and gets you out of the bad day syndrome!

Accessing your positive subconscious is very much like building muscle, the more you use it the bigger it gets and the smaller the negative muscle gets. So learn to use your positive subconscious everyday to get the results you want. Don't forget your subconscious is very obedient and it will deliver whatever you ask, you just have to remember that you are asking, by what you say and what you think.

Looking forward to Retiring Early!
Christine

I am planning on retiring early by making money online.

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